How Can I Change My Life to Be Happy?

Living a joyful life is a journey that requires understanding and aligning with the purpose you were created for. According to the Book of Genesis, God instructed Adam and Eve, not just to multiply physical offspring, but also to 'be fruitful and multiply' spiritually, in terms of relationships and actions that bear the fruit of God's attributes. When we align our lives with God's plan, we naturally experience a deeper sense of fulfillment and happiness.

Develop a Happy Positive Disposition

To start this path, consider developing a positive and joyful disposition. Begin by finding a job that you love, not just for the financial gain, but because it fulfills your passion and purpose. Saving money is also crucial, as it provides financial stability and independence, which are foundational blocks for a happy life. Once you have achieved this stability, finding a life partner with a similar outlook can create a harmonious and fulfilling partnership.

Find Inner Peace

As Charlie Munger famously said, 'All I want to know is where I'm going to die so I'll never go there.' Reframe your question to, 'What can I do to not make myself miserable in life?' By focusing on what to avoid, you simplify your goals and reduce the overwhelm that comes with setting numerous aspirations. Start by listing the things that can make your life miserable and then avoid them at all costs.

For me, it starts with avoiding the following:

Junk Food Sedentary Lifestyle Overspending Being Rude with Others

These are just a starting point. Once you have this list, focus on avoiding these items and you'll have already fought half of the battle. With the clarity gained from this exercise, you can then turn your attention to other things that can bring joy and happiness into your life.

External Perspectives on Happiness

Willie Nelson beautifully encapsulated the essence of happiness with, 'You will never find happiness until you stop looking for it. Do things you love, love the people around you, and let them love you back. Happiness might just find you.' This perspective suggests that true happiness is a byproduct of living a balanced life and focusing on actions that bring joy rather than constantly seeking it externally.

In conclusion, happiness is a state of mind and a way of life that aligns with spiritual and personal goals. By adhering to God's plan, developing a positive disposition, seeking inner peace, and avoiding potential sources of unhappiness, one can pave the way towards a fulfilled and joyful existence. Let us embrace these principles with sincerity and intention, and let happiness come to us naturally.